FYI: I need to put this up higher because it needs to be pointed out in black and white. By the time it comes up in the profile they are probably brain dead from reading. We are a couple, he's straight and I do play with women. WE ARE LOOKING FOR A COUPLE AND WOMEN. Not interested in bi-males even though you assure us that there doesn't have to be m/m interaction. If I want another man to join us, I will let you know. I feel no need to answer emails that are single words, flowered with slang or show obvious disregard for what is written in my profile. And of course putting this in black and white was probably a waste of my time. Can we get an "AMEN" from other people that can identify with this Catch-22? LMAO I am continuously amazed and awed at the many wonders life has to offer. I revel in the opportunities and joys one can experience. I am a very down to earth per and like the company of others who are as well. I am passionate about words and music. Laughing until you almost wet yourself, singing at the top of your lungs, sharing meaningful friendships,and those moments when you can look at another per and just know that you two are the only ones in the room that are thinking the same thing; well, that says it all! Here's to tomorrow and every day after . . . I have to add: I am on here to meet new people. I am not going to play games, tease or just disappear. I am not someone paid to contact and get you to buy a membership. So if you are really interested thank you, nice compliment. But please don't just text me and say, hey text me, your pussy won't be sorry. Makes it sorry already, it kind of wants to shrivel up and die! lol But you can forget thinking I am going get the sexual experience of my life and be forever in your debt! Even I know that a one night stand isn't always what it's cracked up to be. I do not discount the fun it is. Seriously, I know there are many quality men out there. (I don't male bash. Women are just as bad as men.) But let's make this fun. If I am not attracted to you, why should you care. I can't pretend to be someone I am not. And I can't help it if I find Caucasian men the hottest. We all have our preferences. Since I have to spell it out: I AM NOT INTERESTED IN MEN WHO ARE NOT CAUCASIAN.

My Ideal Person Update: I am attached and I am horny. I find myself in a major voyeurism focus and looking to play as a couple with my bf. It makes me wet to watch him and he wants to watch too. This doesn't rule out my playing by myself.

I have a significant other and yes he knows I am here. You can forget the fantasy of being a man who cock-holds another man's woman. I tell him everything and he will want for my safety so communication with him is inevitable.

I will not answer you if you do not at least attach a face photo. I am not going to send out photos of myself just because you ask when I do not have one of you.

To meet men/women and enjoy the time I get to spend with them. People who understands that when we really click, it's better and they can get the better from me in and out of bed. I don't just mean the politically correct word connection, more of an understanding. That's why I like to live it's a great ride to see where things go!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Massage, And probably some others I haven't done yet.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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