I want to go out to movies, or dinner, or even a club and dance and have a good time. I do not want to have to worry about making anyone mad if I happen to see a pretty girl walk by, or flirt a little, because I'm not ready to commit myself to a relationship right now. I got married too young, and my love life decision making process is in question! HA HA! I want to get out, mix it up, make friends, and if I find someone special, GREAT! If not, well, no one gets hurt. I enjoy the outdoors quite a bit, camping, backpacking, rock climbing, I love that stuff and haven't been in too long. Can't say I like fishing... It bores me to death. Probably because I'm no good at it. I have some close friends who tell me I have a big heart, and I'm fun to be around. I try to make new friends when I go to parties. I used to sit in the corner and watch everyone else have fun, but I decided a couple of years ago I was done with that routine. So now I have many more acquaintances than I did a while ago. I'm not going to send pictures of my anatomy to anyone I've just met. There's too much BS that goes along with that. This internet thing seems to collect it all and keep it there until you wish you'd never done something electronically. :D

My Ideal Person a WOMAN, who is not too far from my age, maybe 5-7 years tops, but I'm not so closed minded to think that a lady outside that range isn't worth talking to. I'd like her to be funny and a good conversationalist. I do not expect a first-meet-romp, I hope she doesn't either. (I've made that mistake, doesn't turn out well.) Some one who likes to dance and enjoy themselves, not too clingy, but wants to hangout more than 1 time a month. (wait, funds being as the are, once a month may be ok hehe...)
Um, as far as body type, well, I prefer someone who has been taking care of themselves. I find some women with a little extra padding attractive, and I'm not hung up on a certain look, but I've dealt with what I've dealt with, and I'm not going to date a slob. I'm not overweight, and I'm going to the gym to keep the weight I have proportioned correctly. I don't think it's too much to ask to be able to go out with someone who is attractive. Sorry if this turns you off, but like I said, I can do better than I put up with for a long time, and I'm going to.
Well, Let's face it, this IS a site for Adults to meet and maybe hook up, so I might as well touch on this a little, just in case...
I'd like a woman to be confident about her sexuality, that is a REAL turn on to me! I don't want to feel like I am the one always initiating sex. It gets old, makes me feel like I'm bothering someone, and I don't want to be a bother, I want to be wanted, same as anyone else.
I'm not ok with some of the grosser fetishes or s&m, the bedroom is no place for pain. I enjoy WMW threesomes, never been with a woman and her man before, but it's been crossing my mind lately. Didn't like the idea of being any where near another guy,but I'm thinking if a couple wanted me aound, and dude's straight, I might go for it.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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