Hi, Well, things on this site are a LOT different than I imagined. I've met a "few" really great guys, but for the most part the men on here just seem to SAY a lot of things we women want to hear, but don't always carry out what they say. I';ve been lied to more times than I can count. I'm 45, soon to be 46. I feel and look better than I did when I was 20, and I work hard at it. I want a guy who is upfront about himself and his situation. If it's a "discreet" encounter you want, just say so! Let's meet for a cup of coffee or a drink and see if there is chemistry, and BOTH decide if we want a physical relationship. I want a man who's not intimidated that I have s and I have a career and I'm self-reliant. One who is ok with meeting a couple times a month to just let go and explore each others fantasies................... Contact me if you're out there!!!!!!!!

My Ideal Person Smart, Handsome, someone who I can actually carry on a conversation with! Someone who can make me laugh and show me a GOOD time! I'm a VERY physical person...love to touch and be touched! I'm looking for someone interested in meeting a few times a month for some good conversation, lots of laughs and GREAT SEX... I'm not looking for a commitment and I'm not not looking for a bunch of "bed buddies" either. I know there's got to be ONE man out there who fits all this...looking and wanting the same.....