ENGLISH VERSION: (Vedi sotto x VERSIONE ITALIANA) --------------------------------------------------- WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.[/I] --------------------------------------------------- I am a gentleman (non smoker) who loves intriguiging and being intrigued by girls/women. I am an unashamed, impudent thoroughbred who delights in exposing the most intimate with the ease that a modest man would the palm of his hand. With cheerfulness and excitiment I love to yield to the caprices of women, to entertain, to arouse, to satisfy the most high of passions. After giving you a wonderful massage, I would love to penetrate you slowly. I think it's really hot when you are hot too. The longer the better as far as I'm concerned. I fantasize about receiving and giving oral sex. I really want to meet a woman or a couple who is looking for a joyous, sweet ...intimacy. I like reliability in a per and I'm looking for gentleness. In my fantasy, you are still dressed up on a comfortable arm chair. I'm standing by the window and you look at me with intense desire. I walk up behind you and I hug you and caress you intimately. You turn to look at me with love and malice. We are overcome by desire and we can't help but slowly undressing each other. That's when you say you want to make love with me. I lead you on a big silk sheets bed and we spend the night exchanging tenderness and the deepest intimacy ... What really turns me on: a shower/bath for two, a slow hot oil massage, teasing with a feather. What I am looking for in a partner: LOVING (!) to make love, liking to go slow with gentleness. As I also enjoy Tantra massage, I hereby attach the relevant description taken from an excellent article by Joelusty. [I]The Tantric massage will make you feel as if you are in a trance, where physical boundaries dissolve, time disappears, worries and problems no longer seem important, or are forgotten altogether. I will begin by having you recline on your back with pillows under your head and a towel covered pillow supporting your hips. Your legs will be slightly apart, your knees just a little bent. Your abdomen, thighs, feet, toes, chest, nipples and fingers are then gently massaged with warm aromatic oil. Nothing will escape attention. Your energy flow is stimulated and senses awakened as your body's sensitivity increases. According to Tantric ideals, your entire body will be massaged, including those particularly sensitive areas Perceptions of sensuality and lust are located here, but these "intimate" areas are an important source of joy in life. You will feel relaxed, yet wide awake. You will be coached to breathe properly, as you sink into yet deeper level of relaxation. In this very loving ceremony you will be completely nurtured and pampered with my loving hands, giving you a feeling of comfort and sense of well-being. Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as "sacred space" or "Sacred Temple." In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. This is particularly important for men to learn. Before beginning the Yoni Massage it is important to create a space for the woman (the receiver) in which to relax, from which she can more easily enter a state of high arousal and experience great pleasure from her Yoni. Her partner (the giver) will experience the joy of giving pleasure and witnessing a special moment. The Yoni Massage can also be used as a form of "safe sex" and is an excellent activity to build trust and intimacy. Some massage and sex thes use it to assist women to break through sexual blocks or trauma. The goal of the Yoni massage is not solely to achieve orgasm, although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be as simple as to pleasure and massage the Yoni. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and do not have to worry about achieving any particular goal. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. It is also helpful for the giver to not expect anything in return, but simply allow the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself. The Massage Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body. Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Both giver and receiver should remember to breathe deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the receiver stops or begins to take shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating, is most important. Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to encourage the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching her Yoni. Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. Begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. Spend time here and do not rush. Relax and enjoy giving the massage. Gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. Do the same to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. Take your time. The receiver should tell the giver if the pressure, speed, depth, etc. need to be increased or decreased. Limit your conversation and focus on the pleasurable sensation, too much talking will diminish the effect. The Crown Jewel The clitoris is an amazingly complex structure, similar in function to the male's glands, but surprisingly - up to four times more sensitive. The glands portion of the clitoris holds 6, 000 - 8, 000 sensory nerve endings, more than any other structure in the human body. This hypersensitive node has only one purpose: pleasure. Nothing exceeds its ability to receive and transmit sensations of touch, pressure or vibration. The glands are "crown jewel" of the clitoral system! Gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage her to relax and breathe. Slowly and with great care, insert the middle finger of your right hand into the Yoni (there is a rea for using the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in Tantra). Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni with this finger. Take your time, be gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. Vary the depth, speed and pressure. It is important to remember that this is a massage in which you are nurturing and relaxing the Yoni. With your palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, move the middle finger in a "come here" gesture or crook back towards the palm. You will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or in Tantra, "the sacred spot". She may feel the need to urinate, experience a little discomfort or most hopefully pleasure. Vary the pressure, speed and pattern of movement. You can move side to side, back and forth, or in circles with your middle finger. You can also insert the finger that's between your middle finger and pinky. Most women should have no problem and will enjoy the increased stimulation from two fingers. Take your time and be very gentle. You may use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well. An option to try if the receiver wants it is to insert the pinky of the right hand into her anus. [In Tantra, it is said that when your pinky is gently massaging her anus, the next finger and middle finger in her Yoni and your thumb on her clitoris, "You are holding one of the mysteries of the universe in your hand."] You can use your left hand to massage her breasts, abdomen, or clitoris. If you massage the clitoris it's usually best to use the thumb in an up down motion, with the rest of the hand resting on, and massaging the mound. The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the receiver. Continue massaging, using varying speed, pressure and motion, all the while continuing to breathe deeply and looking into each other's eyes. She may have powerful emotions come up and may cry. Just keep breathing and be gentle. Some women have been sexually abused and need to be healed. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of immeasurable value to her. If she has an orgasm, keep her breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called "riding the wave." In ending the massage, slowly, gently, and with respect, remove your hands. Allow her to relax and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Cuddling or holding is very soothing as well. As you learn to master the Yoni Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality. [/I] VERSIONE ITALIANA Gentile signora o signorina che leggi questo profilo, quand'è l'ultima volta che hai fatto l'amore con un uomo risultandone pienamente appagata ? Vuoi provare con una pera dolce, gentile ed educata che con passione e malizia è pronta a condividere con te quel piacere che tanto desideri ? Ti interessa un uomo col quale puoi anche discorrere, essere ascoltata, in grado di farti riprovare gli aspetti più gioiosi ed i godimenti più profondi ? Vorresti ricevere un dolce rilassante massaggio con olii profumati intervallato da mille baci e stuzzicanti ...carezze... ?

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman who....
LOVES SEX !!!
...I'm looking for someone who can be discreet
As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is a large comfy BED !
Extramarital affairs add excitement to a relationship.
During sex or a romantic evening, I prefer to listen to sensual soft music...

Sensuality - like touching and massage - is as important as sex.
Foreplay is often underrated. I like lots of foreplay before penetration....

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Massage, Pleasuring each other in a bathtub, pool or sea

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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