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milf_4yngstuds 49 / F
"Cali MIlfy here :) Age filter applied to upcoming messages ;)"
Long Beach, California, United States
 
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milf_4yngstuds 49/F
Long Beach, California
so yeah :) I'm a squirter
Introduction
What I'm looking for is quit simple to describe in general: I'm looking for kindred spirits; people who share with me similar philosophies about life, and interperal relationships, and sex. However, the details, as always, are a wee bit more ...involved... This site is obviously rather focused on sex, which is, in one way, a good thing, because we all like sex. On the other hand, I am really not looking for "just sex". I like liking the people I interact with sexually. I like developing a friendship based on trust and communication and honesty and all that good stuff. I am a multi-dimensional per with many different interests (of which sex is just one) and I very much prefer interacting with others who are interested in things besides just sex. Of course, if you are able to pursue other interests AND sex at the same time, that's completely acceptable :-) You and I both know how difficult it is to "summarize" ourselves in a few words on profiles like this. My solution is to not bother with a "few words", and instead write lots of them. Unfortunately, if I happen to have caught you in an impatient mood, you are almost certain to just zoom past this profile because it is too much effort to read. I understand that, but if you are looking for an intelligent, creative, honest, sexual, communicative, unusual woman, I'd appreciate you spending some time reading more about me so you can decide if we are compatible as friends and/or lovers. AFF tends to focus on the sexual dimension, which is both good and bad. It is good because sex is fun, and I'd like to connect with others who also enjoy sex and have a healthy attitude towards sexuality. However, it can also be problematic because it encourages people to be rather one-dimensional on AFF. Just for the record, I'm not interested in just sex. I like multi-dimensional people with many interests and passions, of which one (of many) is sex. If you feel the same way, I'd love to hear from you. And now that I've made that disclaimer, the rest of this initial profile will be fairly sexual in nature :-) I am an ethical slut, seeking others who identify as ethical sluts as well. And by ethical I don't mean "boring" or "conservative", I mean honest, authentic, self-aware, responsible, communicative and introspective. Nor does 'slut' refer to some negative puritanical judgement, it refers to people who agree that sex is a wonderfully intense, supremely enjoyable, infinitely variable activity that one or more people can enjoy together to the benefit of ALL involved. Ethical means we do not harm each other, or others, by our sexual activities. Slutty means that if you *like* being spanked (for example), it isn't harm :-). Ethical means that if you don't like being spanked (for example), you communicate that and I respect your boundaries. Slutty means that we identify each others boundaries and at least discuss the potential in deliberately pushing the envelope together, to see what new erotic experiences exists in the unexplored territory near that boundary. There are soft boundaries and there are hard boundaries, and a little bit of discussion can ensure that sex stays hot and intense, not uncomfortable and unpleasant. I'm not wired like most people. Just because I love one per romantically and sexually, doesn't mean I can't love another per romantically and sexually. I want to develop friendships with people who feel the same way, who actively *want* to share their lives, their thoughts, and their bodies with whomever they feel connected to. When a per I care about (romantically and sexually) meets someone new, and starts interacting with that per (romantically and sexually), I am sincerely *happy* that my partner is happy. I'm happy for him because I know that his interacting with someone else does not mean that him and I share any less of a connection than we did before, and that we can continue to explore our own relationship for as long as we both enjoy it. Of course, it also helps that I am actively sexually aroused by a partner having sex with other people, but then again, i did mention that I'm not wired like most people, didn't I? :-) I'm not interested in fucking a stranger. I'm not interested in satisfying my own self-interest at the expense of other people's well being. I AM interested in making connections with kindred spirits; that is, I'm looking for someone who loves sex and who loves love, and who agrees that there are an infinite rainbow of kinds of sex and an equally infinite rainbow of kinds of love. Maybe you and I can find some shades that work for both of us? *chuckles* :p[/b] [table border="6"] [tr] [td][B][COLOR black]IMPORTANT: To all institutions using this site for their projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. (I suggest the rest of you post this notice)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Blindfolds, Massage

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  • 49 / female
  • Long Beach, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: June 23, 1974
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Bra Size: 40 / 90 D
Speaks: English
Glasses or Contacts: None
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