In no particularly relevant order, except for the first three: 1. I'm deeply in love with the man of my dreams, Hamandwry, and for god knows what rea, he loves me, too... AND he embraces our open relationship. I am, therefore, the luckiest woman in the known Universe. 2. My best friend, Puremagic68 lives with us. If you've always wondered what it would be like to live in a sorority/frat house - come visit. Just don't hold the Unholy Triumvirate responsible for any damage to your psyche. 3. I have two agers, who both range from glorious to wretched - often on the same day. 4. My mother is so proud. 5. I'm incredibly shy, but I hide it extremely well. Except when I don't. If you meet me, substitute the words that will most likely immediately leap to mind (i.e. stand off-ish, aloof, snotty, bitchy) for SHY. 6. I always forget to wear sunscreen. 7. I try not to be judgmental, which is incredibly difficult because I come from a judgmental family, but since I pride myself on being an open-minded, insightful and intellectually curious per, when I find that I *am* being judgmental, I tend to sit myself down, give myself a stern talking to, tell myself to get over myself and any notion that I might have that I have any right whatsoever to judge another per because I HATE being judged myself and then I'm back to being a grown-up again. Don't interrupt this process. 8. I hate run on sentences. 9. I'm among the fortunate few who never felt that any of my kinks, proclivities or preferences were wrong or shameful. Perhaps I have too much hubris to ever believe I'm wrong. 10. If I'm wrong, you should call me on it. I'll take that call gracefully, I promise. 11. I believe that being kinky and being stylish aren't mutually exclusive. I love black, red and silver - not because they seem to be the essentials of the kink community uniform, but because they suit my coloring and because I admire truly chic, sophisticated and stylish women like Coco Chanel (though not so much her Nazi sympathizer bits...). I hope to introduce the wonderful world of color to the kink community. C'mon people, some of you are autumns - ditch the black and go for browns and beige, and ochers. 12. Despite all appearances, I'm not really a girly-girl. I love to camp, kayak, get dirty and get sun burned (you know...because of the no sunscreen thing.) 13. I have freckles. 14. I have a cat named Ozrael who doesn't like me because I refuse to call him Your Grand High Majesty of the Omniverse. I don't like him because he doesn't sit on my feet to warm them when I'm cold. We have an uneasy detante. 15. I'm not really a nice per, I just play one on tv, so please don't make my inner demon Ishtar come out to play. I don't have enough bail money. 16. I cry about everything. Seriously. Every strong emotion comes out my eyes. I cry when I'm sad, angry, happy, excited and over Hallmark commercials. You may join Pure in pointing and laughing; it'll make her day. 17. Bad grammar, spelling and punctuation make me peevish. You don't even want to *know* what a lack of capitalization does to me, so consider yourself warned. 18. People who can quote Jane Austen make me go all gooey on the inside. 19. I can't turn my brain off. I'm intellectually curious and I want to know *everything*, including what makes you tick. I'm an open book, and always assume that everyone else is, too. If you don't want to answer a question, tell me so. Then prepare for the pouting. 20. People who don't know me think I'm quiet. People who do wish I were. And THAT my friends, is the subjunctive mood and I'm one of about 10 people on the planet who knows why. Ask - go ahead, I know you want to... 21. I have auburn hair and extremely nice feet. Everything between is subject to change without notice.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Paul Simon, K.T. Tunstall, Sting, VAST, Jonathan Coulton

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Johnny Depp. He's intelligent, funny, talented,
off-beat and clearly deeply emotional at times. Plus,
you know...yummy! He's the whole package.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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