Most of our friends would say we are a fun-loving couple. We are pretty laid back and like things to be easy going. We are very much in love with each other and our lives the way they currently are. We are just hoping to add maybe just a little more fun and spice. We are far from perfect in both personality and appearance, but we like to think we do ok. We might have a little padding in places, but we are also far from being obese. We like to stay active, and adhere to relatively good nutrition during the week, but we enjoy our weekends. We prefer privacy and discretion so we aren't a fan of public bars or parties. We shower daily and brush our teeth and we expect the same. We are drug and disease free and do everything to remain that way. We expect the same. In the bedroom, we are relatively straight forward, standard "meat and potatoes." We love one on one sexwith each other, but would be interested in threesomes of various combinations. Our ideal scenario would be that we would like to meet a single male who would be interested in becoming friends with us first. We'd love to find a friend that we have some chemistry with or a spark, that we would be just as comfortable having dinner with as we would having in the bedroom. We'd love to meet someone that has some freedom with their schedule where we could possibly play once or twice a week or every other week or so. We are a sensual couple and love plenty of light kissing and touching and rubbing and foreplay. We are not into just jumping right into things. We like taking our time. We would love the primary focus to be on her, (and our "friend" of course) He LOVES watching her and giving her immense pleasure. He would ALWAYS be present and would engage with her and you, as much as you and she desires and is comfortable with. But nothing outright "gay." She loves men and appreciates being kissed and stroked and touched. She prefers men that are assertive and directs the action, but also lets her give direction as well. We are okay with full play, so long all are comfortable and agreeable and above all SAFE. Condoms are expected at first. No exceptions. That could change after we get to know each other and deem all is safe.

My Ideal Person Everyone: Absolute discretion and privacy is a must! As we said above, we'd love to find only a couple of friends, if not a single friend, who we have a chemistry with that we could invite over 1 or 2 nights a week for fun times. If we don't have a chemistry or spark or our personalities are not compatible for any reason, this won't work for us. Personalty goes a long way. We are not looking for perfect bodies or that overused descriptor, the infamous "Ken & Barbie." But we are looking for confidence and someone who is comfortable with themselves and in their own skin. Humor is a must. Or at least wit.
You must adhere to our rules, be drug and disease free, have great bodily and oral hygiene, and understand that no or no thanks or even I don't think so...all mean NO.
Males: FIRST...Safety is a must and condoms will be expected and required for all play. They will also be provided. Of course "hung and thick" is a plus, but it isn't half as important as just being able to use what you've got. Must not only like oral, but must do it well. Many men confuse the two. Remember, in all things with us....quality is better than quantity. Must be okay with possible incidental touching or a little more, but nothing overtly bi or gay. Just understand that it happens and it's okay.

To get started...we would like to hold a dialogue here through the message system until all are comfortable. Then we would move to texting. Then possibly to meeting at a restaurant for dinner or a beverage and conversation. If everything is goes well, and there is a chemistry or spark present, we could arrange to meet for more. We are patient and don't want to be rushed or hurried. As we said before, we want quality over quantity.
Steps listed above could be added or subtracted depending on the "feeling."
But having that "chemistry" is important to us.