I'm very sexual. I am heavily into BDSM with a strong lean into giving pleasure through a combination of control and stimulation. I feel that taking away all control to the point that all you can do is enjoy being along for the ride allows you to experience new heights of pleasure. Sessions can involve sex if you want, but can also be solely arousal and stimulation. If you have certain kinks that you would like worked into a session, that can be done. My enjoyment comes from helping you experience intense sexual enjoyment in a new way, while feeling comfortable. Restraints play a big part in sessions, however the ability to enjoy the use of them only comes with an increased comfort level, so we can use them to whatever level you are comfortable with in the beginning, whether that means fully, or not at all. I am happy to share a face pic privately. From my user name you can see I am married. I am on here with my lovely, yet very vanilla, wife's consent, however if there are people on here we know, neither of us wants to have that conversation.

My Ideal Person Someone either experienced in BDSM, or open minded enough to enjoy it. I'm not just looking for a fuck buddy. The idea is to create intensely pleasureful sessions for you using restraints and toys. If you feel you can never get to the point of giving up full control, then this might not be right for you. That being said, I do not expect your trust, it must be earned, so I am not looking for a one time thing, you must be interested in starting out slow and increasing the intensity of the sessions. I fully respect all safe words, and will create an environment for you where you can release control and inhibitions and just enjoy the session.

Meeting for coffee or lunch first with no sex talk is a great way to start out. It allows you to see me as a person, which will help when you get to the point of submitting control.

If any of this interests you, or you just have any questions, send me a wink or say hi.