** Jan 8, 2015 UPDATE: My membership is expiring on the 14th and I'm probably not renewing it seeing as I signed up almost 2 months ago and have only logged on a handful of times - I know, I'm a slacker. Truth be told though, I was on a more traditional dating site when I signed up here and I was about to bag that site but had a date scheduled for the day after I created this profile. I went on the date because I figured "why not?" and actually ended up dating this dude for about 6 weeks lol. So I apologize to those of you I messaged once or twice with and then disappeared. It wasn't my intention to be such a flake on here. That other thing kind of just happened... I guess what they say is true - you find something when you least expect it. With that said though, I recently realized I didn't like what I had found after all haha. It was fun though :) and needless to say, I kind of took care of that "itch" that was previously mentioned. So again, sorry for being kind of flaky on here. I have a few more days before my membership expires though so I am going to try to make the most of my $50 investment here ;) and will try to touch base with some of you that seem like a good fit. I'm still not looking for something really serious (still don't know that I have the time or energy for it right now, and this isn't really the site for it lol), but with that said, I'm not looking for a one-night stand/cheap hook-up either. I'm open to just having fun with someone and perhaps exploring some shared fantasies, but I'm also not opposed to the potential of more if it seems to be there - in other words: I'm not pursuing it but I'm also not avoiding it at all costs. Let's just go with the flow... see if we hit it off, see if we have chemistry, and take it from there :) Bonus points if you like to wine and dine a little! __________________________________________________________________________________ Busy grad student, just looking to get an itch scratched ;) Sexy, curvy, fit, blonde bombshell... haven't had much time to date lately, looking for something discrete. Check out Q&A section if you want to know more...

My Ideal Person I have a variety of types but physically, I typically like bigger (muscly) guys. Love a pair of big, strong arms/shoulders, but it's the whole package too... face, eyes, personality, etc. Love a guy that is a good kisser - nothing better than a hot make-out session to get things started... just the right amount of tongue and not too wet/sloppy! Love lip sucking/gentle nibbling. Equally enjoy sex being a little rough or on the sensual/gentle side, depending on the mood, and I can be submissive or dominant, but I would say I'm more likely to play the submissive role - love it when a guy takes control!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Not really sure how to describe it but I guess it's kind
of like a date- scenario, I suppose... So someone I'm really attracted to (as opposed to a
creepy stranger) having their way with me, perhaps getting
me drunk and taking advantage of the situation... Maybe
I put up a little bit of a fight, or maybe all I can do is kind
of say "no" but I'm too out of it to really
assert myself (and secretly I really want it) ;)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage, curious to about role-playing but never done any

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Um, YES! Brad Pitt, Josh Bowman, Scott Foley, Channing
Tatum, Shemar Moore

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