Spent a couple of years trying to make a vanilla relationship work. I realized it's hard to make a relationship work with someone when you can't actually be yourself. Describe myself? I am very laid back and low stress. I live my life very drama free. Very open-minded and looking to explore our sexuality. I will push you to your limits and I hope you will do the same for me. I do not have performance anxiety, I was in the lifestyle for a number of years with an ex. I had the chance to explore back then and figured out that I have a very dominant personality.