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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Low sex drive in older women - 1/15/2006

Sometime between 40 and 50, my sex drive just packed up and drove away. What used to be a daily desire for sex has dwindled to a couple of days per month. Has anyone found an over-the-counter solut

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Does temp affect erections? - 5/21/2005

We were in the middle of a swap the other night when the AC went off and the room became unbearably hot. My husband broke out into massive sweat and then lost his erection... something that has nev

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Does it feel as good if not all in? - 5/16/2005

I see quite a few women asking for "big" cocks, but I can't handle 'em. In fact, nothing longer than about 6 inches is going to find itself fully inserted. It's kept me from contacting men who

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Losing the curl and the color... - 5/14/2005

When I was young, I had nice, tight, curly pubic hair. But the older I get, the straighter and thicker it gets. Right now, there's virtually no curl left at all, and gray hairs are starting to show

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Up and down sex drive... - 5/11/2005

Now that I've reached middle age, my sex drive is all over the board. I go from not wanting sex at all during the beginning of my cycle to wanting it multiple times a day near the end. Has anyone f

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Being the "older" woman in a swap setting... - 5/4/2005

I'm 49 and my husband is 50. We've recently been contacted by an interested couple... the man is 51, but the woman is 34. And now I'm having stage fright! <br> How do I overcome the insec

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Is conversation really necessary? - 4/26/2005

When I meet someone from AdultFriendFinder for sex, that's exactly what I want. As far as I'm concerned, "warm up" conversation is just a waste of time, and should have taken place before meeting. I'm all for ri

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Cupid settings = No Contact - 4/20/2005

Just wanted to remind everyone to check their Cupid settings, especially if you're one of those complaining about a lack of replies. <br> I've been winked at by the same person twice in a

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Does anyone work anymore? - 4/19/2005

Because I'm a writer and have the luxury of working from home, it's no problem for me to pull up AdultFriendFinder for few minutes throughout the day. <br> But I see so many posts from some people th

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
How to make contact? - 4/18/2005

I've had a member from East Texas wink at me twice in the last week or so. But every time I try to email back, wink, or invite her to my network, I get an error message saying I've been blocked fro

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Testimonials... fact or fiction? - 4/17/2005

I used to think that testimonials were a helpful tool, but just discovered one couple that has posted "his" and "her" profiles and given each other A++ reviews. <br> Combined with the fa

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Dick or cock? What's in a name... - 4/15/2005

Is there a difference between a dick and a cock? I used the term "dick" in an email the other day and the recipient was quick to point out that he had a "cock", not a dick. Aren't they one and the

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Am I too sensitive? - 4/15/2005

Got the following email message from Madtits this morning. Would this make you mad, or am I being overly sensitive? <br> > hey you, I am attempting to make you feel better about about yo

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Should be lega? - 4/14/2005

It seems to me that LOTS of people are looking for safe sex. In this age of danger and disease, shouldn't we just legalize to make it safer and easier to obtain? Nevada seems to have no problem wi

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Female condoms? - 4/7/2005

I've seen ads for the new female condoms and they look like an interesting alternative, at least for straight sex. However, they are expensive. My understanding is that once inserted into the vagin

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
All tan or white parts? - 4/6/2005

A comedian once said that she'd spent $300 getting a great tan before figuring out that her boyfriend was only interested in the white parts. <br> So my question is, do you prefer the lo

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Best way to say good nite? - 4/2/2005

Suppose that you had a first-meet sexual encounter. Everything went great and you both (or all of you) had a great time. When parting company for the night, how you say good bye? Shake hands? Final

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Condoms slipping off? - 3/28/2005

I've been with two men recently who just couldn't keep a condom in place. They were larger at the base of the penis than the top and the darned things kept rolling up. Any suggestions on how to sol

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rm_KathyHZ 69,1969 C
17  questions
Do stretchmarks and scars matter? - 3/6/2005

Mother nature has blessed me with three and tons of stretch marks, along with a couple of C-section scars. They cover my breasts and stomach. I know it bothers me, but would like to know if it bot

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