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MarleyJaye 55 M
1  question
MFM - 1/28/2009

What is the best way of convincing a couple you would be a good choice...and do pics trump words?

12 response(s), 10 votes
rm_Scott118411 40 M
1  question
anyone in ft worth interested - 1/27/2009

hey i live in ft worth and have not met amnypeople on the site and was curious if i was doing something wrong. i have like 10 friends and need more for fun. let me kow if i can do anything different to get more friends.

11 response(s), 11 votes
copulare_73 45 M
39  questions
Thinking of Summer................. - 1/27/2009

………………..cause it to damn cold in Chicago. If you and your s/o are fans of different local teams, what kinda fun wager do you have when/if your team’s face-off? Ex. In Chicago, if you’re a White Sox fan and you s/o is a Cubs fan, do you bet when they play? Bets baste on who has the better record? Make the playoffs? Etc.



The women I’ve dated was either not into ...

7 response(s), 13 votes
limited usage for standard members - 1/27/2009

where can i look to find out what standard members can do. and how often.

7 response(s), 13 votes
Manuel Again - 1/27/2009

Bunos dias. Thees ees Manuel again. I was talking to my friend Juan Sikh Phukka and I told heem that the women in the US have beeg cunts according to responses here so I am staying in my hometown of Costa Rica.

12 response(s), 20 votes
rm_bobscadi 66 M
2  questions
Autoeroticasphiciation ? - 1/27/2009

I saw a documentry last night about a guy in his late 20's found dead. Cause was as above. WTF is this? Only thought I have is big woman sitting on his face till he died. any other ideas. This was true

16 response(s), 10 votes
rm_NEIMAN37 49 F
23  questions
Stupid unrelated Question about Heath Ledger - 1/27/2009

Do you think Heath Ledger should be able to be nominated for an Oscar since he is dead?

Can't help it Entertainment tonight is playing in the background.

17 response(s), 14 votes
rm_Coolwater355 44 M
3  questions
Naked pics vs. G rated - 1/27/2009

Is it better to post naked pitchers on your profile or or your best fake smile.

14 response(s), 20 votes
rm_jusjuice75 48 F
4  questions
Is sleeping with your best mate, the right thing to do ? - 1/26/2009

Have you ever thought you knew someone, only to discover you didn't really know them at all?

One of my best friends, who I've known for over 15yrs was going through a period of re-building her life following a messy divorce & we developed a new routine as part of her 'reconstruction therapy'; several nights out with the girls helped her, to once again feel attractive & sexy. She had to ...

7 response(s), 17 votes
Clpinit4fun 50 C
8  questions
What is the largest age difference? - 1/26/2009

What is the largest age difference you have ever had in your sex life. Whether older than you or younger? For me, it would probably be 20 yrs. I was 18 and she was 38.

11 response(s), 7 votes
hillwilliam40 63 M
19  questions
Silly assed monday thoughts - 1/26/2009

OK ladies...oh what the heck, gay and bi guys answer too. If you could wave a magic wand and make your lovers cock ANY color you wanted, what color would it be? (and you dont have to stick to anything that occurs in nature)

Part 2

If you could make your lovers sperm taste like ANYTHING you wanted, what would you make it taste like. (I have a feeling I know how this one is ...

8 response(s), 8 votes
Recently Split Up - 1/26/2009

Recently split up with my partner, and I am incredibly horny all the time. Not sure if this an emotion I should be having at this time and especially looking to cure it on AdultFriendFinder.

Any tips on would this be the best way to move forward at my age, what are other peoples experiences...

Thanks all, stay happy

15 response(s), 13 votes
rm_NEIMAN37 49 F
23  questions
Weird thing happend when I experimented with another woman! - 1/26/2009

So I met this sexy pilot at the airport and one thing leads to another and we end up back at her hotel room. Since neither of us have had much experience with the same sex we were off to a rocky start. As passion and lust kicked in things started cumming together but between the sweating and skin on skin rubbing and humping our moisturizing lotions seem to mix and made a foreign material. When ...

12 response(s), 9 votes
Question - 1/26/2009

This is my first post... How long were you a member before you had your first real swap or meet with someone new?

20 response(s), 13 votes
rm_NEIMAN37 49 F
23  questions
Testimonials on womens profile - 1/26/2009

Do testimonials on womans profile make her look cheap, experienced, used, slutty or prove she is willing to meet?

Do men shy away from women that have testimonials?

Do the testimonials only attract guys interest in one night stands instead of FWB?

Sorry to kitchen sink you with 3 questions but I am really interested in the feed back.

16 response(s), 22 votes
rm_NEIMAN37 49 F
23  questions
Customer service on this site - IS THE BEST! - 1/26/2009

Have you noticed that the answer is always the same when you report a problem to customer service? "The engineers are aware of the issue and are working to resolve it." Last week I was banned from posting for no reason at all. When I called customer service I could barely understand the woman on the phone. Where is customer service? It sound like India? The women sounded like she was ...

6 response(s), 9 votes
copulare_73 45 M
39  questions
Your TV spouse............ - 1/26/2009

This post is meant to be fun, something light-hearted. What television character would be your ideal spouse and why? Your response could be from a current or past television shows.









My first wife would be Old Christine (The New Adventures of Old Christine) first off I LOVE Julia Louis-Dreyfus, but also her character is a mess. The character isn’t ...

16 response(s), 22 votes
Mccallswingers 41 G
6  questions
Ladies how often do you think about it ? - 1/26/2009

Most men usualy think about sex 25 hours a day.

How often do most women think about sex?

9 response(s), 19 votes
rm_rjc36_us 53 M
39  questions
Erotic shows on TV - 1/26/2009

My question is do you and your partner enjoy watching erotic shows on Home Box or Max?

7 response(s), 4 votes
What is a dental dam? - 1/26/2009

English is not my mother tongue so please drop the sarcasme-answers, be an A.F. and try to explain to me what it is? Thank you

P.S. There used to be a "dictionary" on this site where one could search/look up words one didn't know the meaning of esp. when used in a text with sexual content. Example: if I'm looking for a "generous" man I would (probably) not be offended if a man wanted ...

13 response(s), 12 votes
Swankie57 65 M
56  questions
What Channel? - 1/26/2009

What Channel? If you life’s story were to be portrayed and embellished for TV which Channel would you be aired on? 1. Lifetime 2. Comedy Central or 3. Sci-Fi Channel

(This is the shortest post I have ever made!)

16 response(s), 25 votes
Recent Findings - 1/26/2009

Recent studies have shown that most men can adapt to life without an arm, leg, finger or hand. However sadly most men cannot live without a pussy.

9 response(s), 26 votes
The Generic Question - 1/26/2009

She likes to have sex but she doesn't want to be considered to be a slut and her boyfroiend told her he wants to cum on her face and do her in the ass but he is attracted to older women and he doesn't shave his balls and wants a threesome but she doesn't know how to squirt and she wonders why is is always so good at the start of a relationship and then it turns sour and why she likes watching ...

12 response(s), 27 votes
matureman6977 64 M
44  questions
Valentines Day is almost upon us once again! - 1/26/2009

My wife, a former Florist, still loves to get flowers for Valentines Day.

What do you like to receive, or like to give, for this special day?

12 response(s), 7 votes
married - should i lie? - 1/25/2009

hi - i'm a highly sensual, and sexual man who needs more than i get in my marriage. i love all kinds of sex, especially oral am unbelievably good at it, but most women don't contact me because i'm married. should i lie about this? need advice and women to have sex with. thanks for the help.

17 response(s), 25 votes
rm_BustyB1977 40 F
8  questions
How can you tell? - 1/25/2009

Many people say that there is a difference between fucking and making love to a person. I am trying to figure out the fucking difference because I think I have just been fucking the entire time I have been have sex. What do you think? I am curious to know about this shit....

15 response(s), 17 votes
SotonGuy22 37 M
3  questions
Relationship between larger and smaller partners - 1/25/2009

I've heard that "bigger" girls tend to go for smaller guys, and vice versa - the smaller person apparently prefers being cuddled/protected by the larger person, and the larger person wants to do the protecting.

As a slightly larger guy, I definately prefer slimmer girls, and my ex, who was larger, usually went for thin guys.

Just wondering about all of your experiances?

21 response(s), 20 votes
SotonGuy22 37 M
3  questions
How do you like to meet? - 1/25/2009

It seems that most people are on here for a sex experiance rather than to find a relationship (Generalising, but that seems to be in the majority).

So, to those of you who are here just for sex, are you mostly looking purely for a one-night-stand? For a fuck-buddy arrangement? Or a more intimate "Friends with benefits" relationship?

Or, are you looking for fun with a view to ...

11 response(s), 14 votes
Are Threesomes Overrated? - 1/25/2009

I was watching an interview with porn star Janine Lindemulder and she said she didn't like threesomes as she preferred to give all of her attention to one person while having sex. So that got me thinking - are threesomes overrated? Any comments are most welcome.

6 response(s), 5 votes
2four2instpoint 57 C
7  questions
In a New Relationship But Playing with Previous Playmates. - 1/25/2009

How does everyone feel about being with a previous play partner when you are now part of a new "Lifestyle" couple in a more than a "Friends With Benefits" relationship? For example, in our situation, we are coming in contact with people who have once played with one of us before in the past. Should those former playing partners now be off limits to us? At first, we agreed that yes we would not ...

11 response(s), 12 votes