Ideal first meeting location  

nastytease4U 40F  
12325 posts
2/11/2018 7:32 am

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Ideal first meeting location

Here is an interesting question, what do you think is the best place to meet someone that you have chatted with on AdultFriendFinder. While you are pondering the question, this would be a good time to post any meetings you have had, (good and bad)

My first meeting locals:

2 guys were invited over to our house
4 guys and one couple we met at a hotel room
1 couple we met at a dance club
a large number we met at a house party
Hotel
bar
coffee shop
movie theater
home
adult themed club or party
restaurant
dance club
mall
I have never met someone from AFF or similar site


maybejustrex4 51M  
2014 posts
2/11/2018 7:43 am

Back when Borders existed, getting a coffee there was a great first meet. In fact, on any given weekend night you could identify the guys waiting to meet someone new by the way they looked up every time the door opened.


listenharder 48M
76 posts
2/11/2018 8:04 am

My default for any first meeting in almost any instance, not just here, is coffee shop. I'm always open to other suggestions.

It's a safe neutral location and if all else fails and the other person doesn't show, I had coffee therefore it's not a total loss.

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CleavageFan4U 61M  
52281 posts
2/11/2018 8:13 am

I've mostly met new ladies at local bar/restaurants, as the provide a nice place to chat and we don't need to worry if the discussions become a bit naughty.

Three favorite "meeting" memories, that don't follow the scenario above:

1. The VERY FIRST lady I ever met via A*F*F - It was a classic story of starts and stops / conflicting schedules. FINALLY one day she just told me to meet her at a local park. We did, and she immediately grabbed my hand and lead me down a walking trail. Very soon, she lead me off the trail, pulled out my cock, and sucked me off till I came, and gave me the "look I swallowed it all" view. I was "thinking - MAN, A*F*F is fun!!"

2. The third A*F*F lady I ever met just told me to get a room. She showed up and we were having sex within about 5 minutes.

3. A blogger lady I'd never met, invited me down to her ranch for a long weekend. For reasons STILL not clear to me, she told me to get a room at a local hotel for nights 1 + 2, after which we'd go stay at her ranch. The week before my visit was full of mutual speculation as to how long till we were nekkid after first meeting. I reset the clock a bit, but being nekkid when she showed up at the hotel room.

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Adultmindedguy 40M
5 posts
2/11/2018 8:27 am

Home worls best for me! Comfortable mot creepy and good place to fuck!!!


HollyChatsNJ 60T  
1199 posts
2/11/2018 8:28 am

Living in a shore resort area. I have it very easy to meet people. I just use the boardwalk to meet face to face.

I've been on AdultFriendFinder on and off for about 6 years. I used to meet all the time.

What I look for now is so different than what it once was so I don't meet like I once did.

If I was still in my old ways. There is a perfect adult club here in Atlantic City called RolePlay.

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cyclingfool 56M  
5958 posts
2/11/2018 8:36 am

Much like Cleavage fan, I met a few off the old AOL chat rooms. Mom's online was a good one. Had a few instant connections if you know what I mean..
But mostly coffee or lunch meetings to start out.
Met one woman with her husband and played golf with them. Great time. Still friends today.


redrockrascal 59M
17697 posts
2/11/2018 9:10 am

I voted bar, but sports bars more specifically.

I've had about a dozen meets since I joined in 12/13. Most have ended up having sex in various places (hotel, park, their place, my place). Of those most led to multiple meetings. A couple became sort of regular things. A*F*Fs been good to me so far.

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Makeushake1 50M  
1 post
2/11/2018 9:14 am

I think that it is easier to meet in a public place that allows one on one interaction in order to establish expectations. Restaurants and coffee shops provides great environments with minimal distractions.


happytmes2 62M  
606 posts
2/11/2018 9:29 am

The first meet was at a restaurant bar. The second was at my home. Two more at Starbucks


AZBiGuy480 55M  
21 posts
2/11/2018 9:36 am

I have meet at a restaurant, bar, hotel, a party at a hotel, there house, and my house.


DoctorBooty 37M  
6108 posts
2/11/2018 10:04 am

I prefer to meet at a quieter bar the first time, after that a hotel is best.


funeye 34M
82 posts
2/11/2018 10:43 am

dance club.....


eager4unow 61M  
1429 posts
2/11/2018 2:17 pm

I voted "coffee shop" but could have voted restaurant, mall, home or theater just as well...


TravelingMan524 66M  
226 posts
2/11/2018 7:06 pm

Coffee shop, restaurant, or bar if she is shy.
Hotel of the chat has been hot or if in a hurry.


gooodloven2 64M
382 posts
2/11/2018 8:13 pm

parking lot in front of restaurant or bar or at a park it is easy to see a car , so what do you drive .


tnt6969694 64M
27 posts
2/11/2018 11:09 pm

I personally prefer the coffee shop as it offers a neutral - no pressure location.


quest4thrills00 53M/46F  
7 posts
2/12/2018 12:16 am

Most of the time we have met people at a restaurant. We did meet one guy at his hotel room.


LOVEORAL4HOURS5 43M
21 posts
2/12/2018 10:06 am

House or Hotel would work best


fashionablegma 75F  
4867 posts
2/12/2018 10:33 am

Meet while out shopping,if I do not like,can get lost in crowds


submokey 63M/56F
10393 posts
2/12/2018 11:17 am

Always used to meet at a coffee shop, in public. Chat for awhile, to get a sense of them in person.

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huntersenpai666 30M
12 posts
2/12/2018 6:18 pm

bar, somewhere public, yet discreet.


bard1155 35M  
3 posts
2/12/2018 8:00 pm

I voted mall, but that is because typically it gives options (food, movie, and general walking). Anywhere that is public and neutral is good. I want to make sure the person I am meeting is as comfortable as they can be. I mean, meeting someone for the first time in person is a stressful event in of itself. Why add additional stress with a place that implies expectations.


fadey66 54M
42 posts
2/12/2018 11:51 pm

You have a beautiful body and I have a beautiful and wonderful rod that can meet with some add friend thank you


bisexualcharle69 54M  
268 posts
2/13/2018 5:12 am

all though it is nice meeting people from these sites. the best place for the first time is a hotel that way they don't know where u live. if things don't workout


OldrHarleyGuy 66M  
322 posts
2/13/2018 7:07 am

For myself, it's a restaurant or bar if it's her preference. Am not into jumping into anything real quick and gives both time to find out more about each other. I've had those that were "meet greet and lets go"!, sorry, is just not my thing, it takes me a little while to warm up and want to know more about someone before all that happens. I don't need to know a person's whole life story either, but it helps me define if that person is a good probable match or not, just to chat awhile and be as open as possible. I guess in this day and age that makes me somewhat old fashioned, but hey, that's who I am..
As for meeting here on this site, yes, have had 4 meets from over the past 2 yrs, all of which began pretty well, but ended in disaster because of the untold stories and misleading information found after the first several dates and it wasn't on my part, thankfully to say.


aniceride 48M  
69 posts
2/13/2018 8:33 am

my first meetings are always in public to make sure there is comfort level.you can write or talk to someone till your blue in the face but you never really know until you actually meet.my meetings are always under the pretense of not jumping into to bed after two minutes lol.


hapamale 53M  
68 posts
2/13/2018 11:40 am

some kind of drink always help, even coffee.


Saranghae2 46F
205 posts
2/13/2018 11:46 am

i won't meet anyone indoors. i just simply prefer meeting other ppl outdoors instead... usually at a park.

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dessertgarden 48F  
24 posts
2/13/2018 12:29 pm

My most favorite, still on-going, was at a local grocery store. Multi-tasking, it worked out wonderfully well I will forever look for avocados every time I step into a produce section!


camperdude_69 57M
2469 posts
2/13/2018 1:57 pm

I think a coffee shop... for first meeting


tyrantcapri 45M
15 posts
2/13/2018 2:53 pm

damn, anywhere where the clothes could be shed withing five minutes, I hate formal interactions, and I found the best way to get past that is with a good fuck, suddenly, its as if we've known each other for years.


Leegs2012 45M
31476 posts
2/13/2018 3:24 pm

Usually meet at Bars or Sex Partys


temptationplus58 59F  
1044 posts
2/13/2018 6:26 pm

I always meet in a public place.. that's just a no brainer. Safety first.


slowrider136911 57M
271 posts
2/13/2018 6:56 pm

I like a coffee shop. Quick and easy. If it's a single girl, I'll do lunch as well. Couple would be coffee or maybe a bar. Pretty much a safe public place. Lot of flakes out there!


Cpllooking6671 51M/47F  
45 posts
2/13/2018 7:23 pm

Our meets:
Wegman's cafefor coffee- 3 times all single guys
Dinner- 2 times with couples
Appetizers- 1 time couple, 1 single guy
Applebee's - 1 time couple


Pale_Guy 25M
50 posts
2/14/2018 1:46 am

Coffee shop or restaurant. I always meet people in public first.


asslover9988 47M
124 posts
2/14/2018 8:50 am

hotels, bars , mall


WantUToWantMeToo 48M  
53 posts
2/14/2018 10:22 am

Safe, neutral and non threatening environment. At least you get a coffee if it doesn’t work out or she’s a no show. Lol


JohnInNebraska 58M
48 posts
2/14/2018 11:04 am

I met a couple at a bar which worked out great, In regards to the question I believe the best place is at a coffee shop, bar or somewhere in the public is the best places to meet.


TASTYME_4U 43F  
4 posts
2/14/2018 12:31 pm

for security reasons, I never at anyone homes or bars (no alcohol) ...I always meet in a more vanilla place like a coffee shop or somewhere where there are a lot of cameras and people. safety first.

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2Saltie2 61F  
145 posts
2/14/2018 2:21 pm

In public. Never in his place or mine.


sexydad1167 50M  
1345 posts
2/14/2018 5:58 pm

Most I have met at my place Either talked for a while first or I made dinner or we went right to the bedroom. I have met some out at a restaurant. Or Her place,


sanots123 52M/52F  
20 posts
2/15/2018 2:37 am

Of course, we meet only at a public place - restaurant, coffee shop, bar, park - anything.
Only once in Bangkok, we were invited directly into a condo for a group setting ------------- AND BOY, we did enjoy ourselves.


Ltnoman42 52M
63 posts
2/15/2018 5:43 am

the beach

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PVJowe 58M/55F  
104 posts
2/15/2018 9:19 am

After being on AdultFriendFinder for almost 15yrs I most always will arrange a Meet N Greet at a Bar.. I went to this system after being stood up way to many times and I would be left there sitting alone.. So now I arrange for 3-6 guys to meet me at some watering hole.. Those that show up and impress me I will arrange a playdate with.. Works much better than just 1 on 1..


fahiem2010 46M
10 posts
2/15/2018 1:19 pm

\8b if your meeting don't go well I'm in Orwigsburg let's me.


GIdontknow_134 60M
260 posts
2/15/2018 3:29 pm

Hi nasty:

I've met up with women (from online) at bars, restaurants, a pool hall, a coffee shop, a hotel, a mall, one woman's home, the home of a friend of a woman, Meet & Greets and probably a few other places that I'm forgetting. I think the most important thing is picking a place that satisfies her (and your) security needs. That tends to leave out meeting at your home.

HTH,

G


nicelipss66 42F  
22523 posts
2/15/2018 7:24 pm

I say Coffee Shop. cause if things don't click. still ok cause it won't take too long. and both can go on their way after that. short and simple.

But I have to say that I have met several members from this site at my my place. that is because I have talk to them some much over the blogs and talk to them over the phone that I felt comfortable to do so. but I always let my roommate know when someone is going to visit, that way he knows just in case. and sometimes he is here in his room just to make sure. but so far every meeting has been very pleasant.

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playtoy484 55M
103 posts
2/16/2018 9:11 am

The ones i have met have been right in there own bedroom...


EvelynJMN 59T
8 posts
2/16/2018 10:36 pm

Always try to make it a public venue - bar/restaurant usually.


jayandkayforfun 40M/38F  
20 posts
2/16/2018 11:25 pm

as a single man i have met 2 AdultFriendFinder couples at there homes one female was naked as i walked in and the other was fully dressed but not for long and as for now as a couple we have not got to that point of meeting yet so cant answer


wincardium 55F  
2 posts
2/17/2018 12:01 am

I prefer meeting people in public for the first time. There's a great local bar that's near me and perfect for meeting people. I also like coffee shops and of course, Starbucks.

While I have done it twice, I just don't think it's a good idea for a female to meet a man she's never met for the first time in a hotel room. But that's me. Love, love, love AdultFriendFinder!


McDawger 45M
45 posts
2/17/2018 4:25 am

I love to meet at a hotel...and fuck right away😘


Bmanus465 65M
31 posts
2/17/2018 5:42 pm

My first meeting was in a parking lot in my car. She was very nervous as we went to a hotel room. We spent the time in the room with me kissing her and talking about what I would do to make her happy. We never had sex that da but for every week after that for two years I got a room and we fucked for four hours each time.


JXC2016 48M  
4 posts
2/17/2018 6:08 pm

I picked the last person up in front of her house and we drove to a hotel. I can't host so picking her up and going to a hotel or staying at her place is okay with me.


nekkedcouple 57M/52F  
28 posts
2/18/2018 6:23 am

We usually meet at a bar. There have been several times when the guy doesn’t show up or he does and doesn’t look like his pictures, so it’s safer and easier to meet in public.

But we were at a hotel out of town on the last evening of a business trip/vacation this past Friday and we invited a guy over that we had chatted with online. He had sex with my wife for quite a while and then he left. We made love afterwards. Very erotic.


TongueRyder 47F  
4 posts
2/18/2018 8:09 am

Always meet at a coffee shop that also happens to be near some hotels. First meet, we chatted for about a month before deciding to meet at the coffee shop. Once we met, we chatted more, liked what we saw and decided to head over to the hotel. He was already fingering my pussy while we were on the elevator and once in the room , he walked me over to the bed, bent me over and started eating my pussy from behind. Suffice it to say, we had a great time

One meet, was a guy who lived farther away. Again we chatted for about a month, decided to meet at a 1/2 way spot (park). Once we arrived, he came over to the drivers side, gave me a kiss and some flowers. We drove around in the park, me stroking his cock and he fingering my pussy until we decided to get a hotel room. Again, as soon as we entered the room, he led me to the bed, bent me over and started eating my pussy from behind, he was some of the best oral ever! 10 tongues up for him, LOL


poullaki1982 36M
17 posts
2/18/2018 2:43 pm

I met that woman from AdultFriendFinder at a bar in Athens. But nothing more happened


sexybunny4love 51F
250 posts
2/18/2018 9:42 pm

Mostly at restaurants - dinner first , then if we click, mmmmmmmmm lol

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DiscreetAffairPA 42M
157 posts
2/19/2018 6:31 am

Any place public. First, it gives the woman more safety and security. Second, it gives either or both of you a way to back out easily if you're not comfortable.


CedarsPrince 38M
618 posts
2/19/2018 7:17 am

I usually prefer a restaurant or a coffee shop. It's a public place so everyone feels comfortable. You also get to know how the person is by the way they eat and treat the staff.


fancy_legs 46F  
11 posts
2/19/2018 8:48 am

First meeting is a restaurant , somewhere that is public. Safe place. Try to get off the rush timing so you can actually hear the conversation without yelling over the sport bar places. Going to a restaurant gives you more time to have a conversation with that person. See if there is any interest or connection for anymore to follow.


oldman1973 69M/33F  
450 posts
2/19/2018 9:07 pm

We only ever meet others, Men, couples with bifems and single bifems or groups at our home, we enjoy a few days of uninterrupted sex fun every time


RealGuy4u101 55M

2/19/2018 9:30 pm

It all depends


shag46514 68M  
51 posts
2/22/2018 9:39 am

Coffee shop or local park is good for first meet. Her house is good too. I think the strangest place was a first meeting on a bench across from the local police station. She felt really safe there, but we moved on. Where ever the lady feels most comfortable works for me.


SummerDances 42M
21 posts
2/23/2018 4:32 pm

Coffee shops or smoothie bars are where I have met most of my AdultFriendFinder dates


cumboi65 66M  
912 posts
3/2/2018 6:18 am

I've had luck on AdultFriendFinder and have always met at my home except for the occasional meet at his house.


Bagbag86 58M
4 posts
3/3/2018 2:49 am

I want one pussy one blow job. An get it right. I dont care if in the ladies room just do


Bagbag86 58M
4 posts
3/3/2018 3:02 am

Cum now damit


Baltofriendly 52M/49F
12 posts
3/3/2018 7:28 am

For me it was the mall, very public and alot of places to sit and have a nice conversation and even get something to drink (coffee, coke)
It's also nice to go window shopping as you can walk around and talk about things you wanted to know or ask


AFFHW0000 57M  
26 posts
3/4/2018 5:54 pm

I think that a coffee shop is a good safe place to meet; public and a good place to talk and get to know each other.


Iwanaliku2 56M  
42 posts
3/20/2018 6:42 am

First choice - Coffee shop... Second choice - bar.... It's all about her feeling safe until we feel the connection...


marcoskrumar 38M  
8 posts
3/23/2018 6:07 am

My first meeting locals
In side my car


lostboy4422 51M
24 posts
3/28/2018 11:17 am

First time was at a shopping center....worked out well...hotel was just next door


UrIceCreamMan69 64M
36 posts
4/12/2018 5:26 pm

A restaurant with a hotel close by.


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