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Xdstephanie 67T

5/25/2019 11:48 am

Here to be myself without ridicule or abuse, I crossdress to relieve my anxiety xx


Timetraveler2 60M  
159 posts
5/25/2019 12:01 pm

We all have our reasons for being here, and they can change over time. This is an Adult social media site, and how we interact with other members is our own business. I just wish there were not so many scammers on here. The active bloggers are the best/truest people around.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
5/25/2019 12:01 pm

Mainly to interact If there was a local (to me here or in the UK) person who wanted to meet me, I'd be open to that. I've made a few virtual friends who are fun to talk with. The site is also a bit of an eye-opener: it is also (to 90 not a swinger site since swingers do not interact in the rude and inconsiderate manner of many (manly men) here and swinging is always based on mutual respect.


1just4fun61 63M

5/25/2019 12:07 pm

I'm here for a lot of reasons, and everyone should be on here for what ever makes them happy or horny.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
5/25/2019 12:29 pm

You know hun you have EVERY RIGHT to be here as much as any of us do. And ignore the naysayers, maybe they are jealous as it does run rampant here on the site. I am not here to meet up with anyone but FRIENDS here now as I have been there and done that!! I hope you are enjoying a great weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Bettibenobo 68F
423 posts
5/25/2019 12:36 pm

You say only here to blog and then "Ignore my profile below."

In profile below you say you want to meet.
I think you send a mixed message by keeping that part of your profile up.

You know they don't read all of a profile and pick out the words they want to see. Then ignore others like the very first sentence about NOT meeting.

You have a great body and many guys who want to "hook up" will hope you'll change your mind about them. Dreamers!


ericasatin 69T
529 posts
5/25/2019 12:55 pm

Been on here for many years now. Here to meet and chat with others like myself. Met some very nice people and some that are rude.Keep posting your pics. I think you have a very nice body.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/25/2019 1:19 pm

People can be here for whatever reason they want to be. It is really no one elses business. However, being clear on why you are here and having that on your profile is a good idea for everyone here. If someone can't understand and/or handle that it is their problem.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/25/2019 2:29 pm

I am here for my own reasons and surely do not think I have to spell them all out in my profile. I have learned to ignore the rudeness and know where my delete and block functions are. Most of the "complainers" have very thin profiles(if any at all). Be here the way you wan to be. Let it make you happy and keep growing.

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
5/25/2019 3:00 pm

Just ignore them, people can be here for whatever reason they want. they dont have right to question whoever. I just gave up my gold membership and stop looking for sex at the moment. but I loveeee blogging and reading blogs...therefore thats my main reason in AdultFriendFinder now....


resant78 45M  
3326 posts
5/25/2019 3:23 pm

At first I was here to possibly meet people, but that didn't pan out, so now I'm here to read blogs and write blogs myself.
When I blog on this site, I can write freely about sexual type stuff that I wouldn't write on other social-platforms.


ltrlover1 66M

5/25/2019 3:50 pm

I completely agree with Imthatgirl, reading the blogs give a lot of insight as to what others want and see in themselves without hesitation, they can be open and real, thats a pleasant thing

baffled


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
5/25/2019 5:34 pm

This is a good ole world and it allows us to do almost anything we want to here, what ever your reason for being here is YOUR business, WHAT you post is your business , Just like people that don't like a certain TV program, Man turn the channel!!! No one forcing you to watch, move on..

I have likes and dislikes as all of us do , but I don't let something get in my way if I can just simply walk around it!!! These people need to get a real life and stop letting their petty issues bother them and others..

I hope you have a good holiday, be safe if you travel...

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


NotPikachu 40M

5/25/2019 6:43 pm

I'm here to get my pika chu'd


zeke53028 65M  
1135 posts
5/25/2019 7:11 pm

I'm mainly use AdultFriendFinder as a time waster. When I'm on I'm usually also watching sports or something on TV. I read some blogs, perv some pics and videos, check out the group posts and sometimes I read a few articles. When I have tried to interact, most women don't even respond or I'll get a "don't bother me." I think the majority of people on here have zero interest in meeting. The site has gone way downhill from what it was a few years ago.


Justsittinhere06 61M

5/25/2019 7:44 pm

I like being on here for all the above reasons. Lots of variety.


Fukm3nowallrite 53M

5/25/2019 7:54 pm


Azbear1969 54M
85 posts
5/25/2019 11:14 pm

I first got on AdultFriendFinder a long time ago mainly to chat with people. It was until my second time returning to AdultFriendFinder that I got around to looking to meet, and did meet some wonderful people. My third return to AdultFriendFinder was to meet others, which I have and to actually try and start writing erotic stories. I don’t judge people being on here for whatever their reason for being here is.


old_stick 62M
83 posts
5/25/2019 11:50 pm

It saddens to me that you need to put this question out there. Whatever reasons, other than malicious ones, should be accepted. It may be an adult site but respect must still apply!


Pal4Perks 63M

5/26/2019 2:00 am

I joined this site to meet people. If I wanted chat, videos, and fake friends, I would have joined Facebook. The cams girls are a waste of time, and money.


Pal4Perks 63M

5/26/2019 2:17 am

I'm on this site to meet people for sex. All of the side shows on this site are monetary extracting distractions. Focus folks, none of you joined this site for the side shows. The side shows are why 90 percent of profiles are fake. As of this moment this postings poll, says on 23 of 99 have a priority to meet someone. So, approximately 2.5 percent of the people on here are real, and trying to meet someone, anyone else that is real, is distracted. Sad!


jasonarg3 40M
80 posts
5/26/2019 3:07 am

Why do people think they have the right to question u..do what makes u happy..F*** the rest xx


jasonarg3 40M
80 posts
5/26/2019 3:09 am

Why do people think they have the right to question you..do what makes u happy hun xx


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
5/26/2019 4:37 am

There are many reasons to ignore people here.....and out there. There are as many reasons for being here as there are people in the world. Noone needs to or should judge another for......any.....reason. As noone lives in anothers shoes. We all have our reasons, be it public or private, and we will explain those reasons ( or not ) with those that we feel comfortable with. Its all about building relations, in my book....and NOT about sex, as that will come, and can come anytime we choose. Carry on in whichever way makes you grow ~~


dangpkin1 28M
22 posts
5/26/2019 5:51 am

here to enjoy the virtual side


pokekitty01 53M
563 posts
5/26/2019 6:36 am

All the above, of coarse!


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
5/26/2019 7:02 am

    Quoting Bettibenobo:
    You say only here to blog and then "Ignore my profile below."

    In profile below you say you want to meet.
    I think you send a mixed message by keeping that part of your profile up.

    You know they don't read all of a profile and pick out the words they want to see. Then ignore others like the very first sentence about NOT meeting.

    You have a great body and many guys who want to "hook up" will hope you'll change your mind about them. Dreamers!
I agree, men think with their dick, so see, lets say provocative photo's and think it's game on... this is a "sex site" you know!! I would keep it really short and to the point .. "I'm not meeting" should do it!! too many words confuse them


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
5/26/2019 8:16 am

I voted "other" though I suppose "all the above" would almost work. I didn't select it because I don't cam myself. Not that I wouldn't - issue is I'd like it TOO much and it would totally takeover if I ever started.

My short version answer to your question would be "to interact with other like-minded individuals" and the blogs surely are a great way to do that!

This Has GOT to Stop
Youre About to Get Heavier
Hats, on HNW
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Jane72210 52F

5/26/2019 8:19 am

Just because they send messages, doesn’t mean you have to answer.😉
Just for my own sanity and in an effort to save time/hassle. I ignore the rude/crass altogether. If they continue to message me, I block them.


MemphisGuy85 38M  
27 posts
5/26/2019 9:06 am

Hard to meet the right people with same tastes. So many prudes out there


SuziQoo 56F  
22 posts
5/26/2019 9:40 am

In my opinion, you pay for your membership and should be able to use this site as you prefer. It is no one else's business.


SlutsHereICum 61M
13 posts
5/26/2019 10:47 am

I'm here searching for a regular playmate/FWB. But it seems to me that this site is being more and more taken over by Cam Models from Columbia.


shyishinswanse32 50M

5/26/2019 11:39 am

I have no problem with people on here not wanting to meet,but I do think they should make it clear from the off and not lead people on (that's just a general comment btw)


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
5/26/2019 12:22 pm

This site has much to offer so It’s not possible to vote for just one from your list. As far as all the rude no class jerks that insist this is just a sex site, they are just bitter about falling for the easy casual sex/join and get laid tonight marketing, thinking that women would come running to indiscriminantly service them just because they joined and posted a dick pic.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
5/26/2019 12:49 pm

My reasons for being on this site have changed somewhat over the years.
At first, I was like a bull in a China shop. Viewing profiles/pics, messaging, watching vids, flirting etc.
Now my priority is the blogs. I enjoy the interaction. That's not to say I still haven't entirely stopped looking at the pics etc


Cerealguy9009 48M

5/26/2019 2:01 pm

Got my own reasons as well...


tyrantcapri 51M
24 posts
5/26/2019 2:43 pm

I don't know about anyone else....but as the old proverb says "where the carcass is, there shall the eagles gather"... there's a lot of pussies on offer here, l love pussies, so am on here to get me some,,, Nothing complicated about that, right ?


markymarky696969 43M

5/26/2019 3:24 pm

People have there own reasons to be here and shouldn’t be judged why they are here!


WindsorSex69 47M

5/26/2019 3:35 pm

All of the above seems like the obvious response to me; except for those who didn't read far enough to see it as an option.


LordMandrakeJB 67M  
666 posts
5/26/2019 4:14 pm

Haters gonna hate. If they don't like your posts or reason for being here, they can go piss into the wind. LOL


Cerealguy9009 48M

5/26/2019 5:51 pm

I like seeing real people in real environments. Sexy stuff.


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
5/26/2019 6:08 pm

Everyone's reason is their own..... And it should only matter if they enter into a relationship


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
5/27/2019 1:13 am

At the exact moment a person starts questioning another persons motives,
( without infringement of any law or statute , moral or otherwise )
the ubiquitous right of speech has been abused
Ergo, revoked

Cheers my lady
( and thanks for the gorgeous pic)

P


johnson122019 47M

5/27/2019 4:45 am

It seems to me in a world that is supposed to be more tolerant of others is NOT!! Everyone deserves to have an opinion whether or not I agree with it is not important, what is important is that WE are allowed to express Our opinion our desires our sexual orientation our beliefs are just that they are Ours. So keep posting keep doing what makes You happy and fulfilled never worry about others Be true to Yourself!!


marriednhush2 32F

5/27/2019 7:23 am

I joined this site to meet and fuck, cheat with married if possible but if not married then with single men black, white, Mexican it don't matter love bareback but do use protection...and if some of you want to call it being a hoe then that is what it is...lol

48DDD married woman in need of a hard stiff cock


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
5/28/2019 4:58 am

Yes e all here for different reasons. I am here to meet, and blog. Used to chat messenger does not work. Sadly not many are honest here nor do they read...


thgoldenfish1974 49M
36 posts
5/28/2019 5:32 am

Bella domanda....


CrazyDriven14U 63M
172 posts
5/28/2019 6:56 am

For me, it's about fantasy exploration and possible fulfillment. I enjoy reading about others fantasies and experiences then, mentally putting myself in those situations, I see if I can fit. Because this is a social sex site, there are many variations of a theme. I'm looking for my groove.

Testing... Is this thing on!


louisianafun2 46M
29 posts
5/28/2019 8:40 am

I live in a small rural area and completely unaccepted for being ME. Thank all of you for accepting me and have met some lifelong friends through AdultFriendFinder.


licklixlic 55M
25 posts
5/28/2019 8:59 am

there is no reason to explain yourself. Be you and do as you please. To many people in other peoples business..


aniceride 53M  
117 posts
5/28/2019 9:36 am

as you can tell from your poll,there are many reasons to be here.so i have to agree with all of the above.just one sec to vent here please lol.i've been on this site for about 14yrs now and i can say it didn't used to e like this.there certainly wasn't as many rude people for sure!it used be most on here were adults and acted as such.as the site got more popular unfortunitly we got more fakes,rude and busy body types.all and all however it still seems to be the best site to meet REAL people.i'm truely sorry you seem to be running into the rude and busy body types.


fitguyinchi34 39M

5/28/2019 10:04 am

You are very sexy and have the right to do whatever you want on here!!


rarevintage69 72M
40 posts
5/28/2019 7:58 pm

I believe that as long as you are not here to hurt or be deceitful to anyone you have every right to be here and express yourself in any way that you want.
I wish you every success in your search for happiness!


satin4me62 67M
24 posts
5/29/2019 4:59 am

I was on AdultFriendFinder many years ago and have returned for the same reason, to fulfill my fantasies. I don't think we should concern ourselves with what other people think, If I chose to masturbate then I'm a winner.


Luv4me33 59M

5/29/2019 6:45 am

Please dont stop posting pics, i have great dreams about all the things i could do to you!!!!!!!


Smoker728 32M

5/29/2019 7:58 am

I agree with you.


Apollorising58 63M

5/29/2019 2:07 pm

I voted other!
It is the only chance for me to blog with a sexy woman like you!

Become an Apollorising58 watcher!


garhfx 68M
30 posts
5/29/2019 2:22 pm

I'm on here to chat, meet if the situation seems right, read blogs and stories, and indulge some fantasies, even if it's only through corresponding with other folks here. If you don't agree with someone else, and their reasons, leave them be and follow your own path.


Tstststs68 55M
22 posts
5/29/2019 9:08 pm

I am so lonely, I am in a sexless marriage. I am really in a tough spot because I don’t want too cheat. I have never cheated but I am not happy either.


SugarrCane 61M

5/29/2019 9:32 pm

Why not? And Why are you on AdultFriendFinder?


Atleast4fun 56M

5/29/2019 11:03 pm

I starting to think there isn't any reason to the site kinds ducks and is kinda big scam I say


thejashman 38M

6/1/2019 9:55 pm

I'm Here to interact with other


Apollorising58 63M

6/3/2019 11:29 am

All of the above!

Become an Apollorising58 watcher!


FkBuddy4u69x 40M
3 posts
6/6/2019 8:25 pm

ive found this site to be a lot deader than it use to be, use to be easier to meet people


1025mws 60M  
677 posts
6/8/2019 9:59 am

Lusty, I agree with you!! I would love to meet and have sex with as many women I can. It is so hard to find a woman to meet up with and pleasure on this site.


Dover4funn 61M
37 posts
6/20/2019 11:00 am

The Headline on the site is:

"AdultFriendFinder"
"Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now"

This should explain the purpose of the site. It is not Facebook.


TallTattooedDude 56M  
39 posts
6/21/2019 1:15 pm

Too each Their Own BUT...
If You have No intentions of meeting anyone ever STATE THAT UPFRONT


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
6/23/2019 11:57 pm

ANY reason to be here is valid.

Unbeknownst to the naysayers - there are NO rules.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


lucasteel78 45M

6/28/2019 7:24 am

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm hot


Lostent61 47M  
28 posts
7/24/2019 4:59 pm

Everyone has their own reasons for being here and are entitled to those reasons. No one has a right to judge them for that. Like you said your not misleading anyone and since I've been back and more active, I enjoy reading your blog. Keep it up...haters are going to hate regardless.


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
8/3/2019 5:34 am

I signed up year's ago trying to fill a void in my life. I didn't fill it here. This became online entertainment mostly and an erotic escape. But I have had a little fun along the way and have net several wonderful people that have become true friends.
If only we were closer...😘


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