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Flattered or annoyed?  

Sharinrosey 32F  
282 posts
8/30/2017 8:08 pm
Flattered or annoyed?

Should I be flattered or annoyed when I meet someone to find they have invited a few extra friends to join in with the fun?

It seems to happen all the time and there is one guy I have now met a number of times and each time I have arrived at his place there have been at least two or three extra friends there who I usually end up having sex with as well despite only intending to meet with him.

At first I was quite flattered so many of his friends wanted to fuck me but it has now become a regular thing with the groups getting bigger and bigger each time I meet with him. I haven’t complained about it yet and not really sure if I should but I do kind of get the feeling a lot of his so called friends aren’t really his friends at all but just guys who have heard about me and inviting themselves to have sex with me.

He really is quite a sweet guy and very talented where it counts so in a way I suppose it is to my benefit.

My husband keeps saying not to worry about it because he knows how much I love having sex with groups of men but I can’t help feeling I am being taken advantage off.

I am also curious to know how would you feel if you were put in the same situation and what would you be inclined to do?
Keep meeting with him?
Stop meeting with him?


Sharinrosey


RobK2006 56M
5998 posts
8/30/2017 8:26 pm

So long as you feel you are being safe, perhaps keep meeting with him. How many guys at a time has he brought to fuck you?


Sharinrosey replies on 8/31/2017 2:43 am:
The groups are now around 6 to 9 with a few regulars

valdezvicvic 65M
996 posts
8/30/2017 8:38 pm

The question is do you enjoy the attention and the sex that you are getting? If so them why change, if not communicate your feelings.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
8/30/2017 9:10 pm

I'd call him your pimp. And ask for a cut.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/30/2017 9:18 pm

Not clearing it with me first.....he would be kicked to the curb. Total disregard. You call the shots, not him. You don't know who is showing up. So not safe.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/30/2017 9:30 pm

Should I be flattered or annoyed when I meet someone to find they have invited a few extra friends to join in with the fun? ..... I don't know.. should a guy feel flattered or annoyed if you brought your goddamn husband?

It seems to happen all the time ..... So , walk away if you don't like it.

and there is one guy I have now met a number of times and each time I have arrived at his place there have been at least two or three extra friends there who I usually end up having sex with as well despite only intending to meet with him. ..... Oh knock it off.... you could have walked away from this at any time, but you didn't. You even met with him a number of times at his place and fucked his friends , too.

At first I was quite flattered so many of his friends wanted to fuck me but it has now become a regular thing with the groups getting bigger and bigger each time I meet with him. ..... LOL... so stop going over there.

I haven’t complained about it yet .... Don't waste your time. If you don't like it, knock it off, and go away.

and not really sure if I should but I do kind of get the feeling a lot of his so called friends aren’t really his friends at all but just guys who have heard about me and inviting themselves to have sex with me. ...... Doesn't matter who they are. You put yourself into that position, and you can also take yourself out of that position.

He really is quite a sweet guy and very talented where it counts so in a way I suppose it is to my benefit. .... If you say so.

My husband keeps saying not to worry about it because he knows how much I love having sex with groups of men ....Married at 25, what colossal waste of lifetime.

but I can’t help feeling I am being taken advantage off. ..... Yeah, you're kidding, right?!


hotfor62 61M

8/30/2017 9:36 pm

you are your own goddess do what you feel because you own it


SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
8/30/2017 9:36 pm

Your poll question is whether or not to keep meeting up with the guy you make plans to meet. The way I am reading this post it doesn't seem like the issue you have is with him directly but rather the friends whom are present when you get together with him. To me the there is one solution tell "the guy" from this point moving forward that you do not want his friends present at the time of your arrival and that upon arriving if YOU are in the mood to have "Extra Fun" that you will decide which of his friends are worthy of pounding your kitty. In my opinion the decision you need to make.... is which one of you is going to control your meetings. (If you want to be in control...Reinforce with him the FACT that you haven't denied any of his friends YET. If you don't want to be in control....let him know exactly what you said here, "That you are flattered, but at the same time you don't want to be taking advantage of either."

Again this is just my unbiased opinion from an outside perspective. I hope you absorb it and in the end it ultimately helps you with your decision.

Ciao for now......SIG


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/30/2017 9:38 pm

    Quoting  :

She's just messing dramatic. She's been over there several times. She keeps going back for more dick, and she will continue to go back for more dick as long as she is happy with it.

I mean really, if a woman went to meet a guy , and there were other guys with him, do you think she would go with him and fuck his friends too?..... no. if she wanted dick, then sure she would.

AND then continue to meet with him and his group of friends several more times if she didn't like it... ? ...no.


simon004 38M
12 posts
8/31/2017 1:13 am

The largest Lake in Africa is Lake Victoria and Uganda lays claim to much of it.

The Ssese Islands is a hidden Tropical Island Chain in Lake Victoria


divercl1 58M
25 posts
8/31/2017 3:50 am

Stop meeting with him. He is not respecting you by allowing uninvited participants. Although he is a fuck buddy, He should ask you if it's okay to invite others and then only if you agree.


good_daddy_meat 58M
130 posts
8/31/2017 4:09 am

your body, your control. if you don't like it, its up to you to say something. id say something first before stopping seeing him because you never had that conversation with him up front.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/31/2017 9:35 am

soooo....

why it's gonna have to be always a group of people to meet??? is it because, you and your friends are into group sex?

do you and your partner really want to have sex with different people every time you meet? or just regularly known group of people?

the reason why the group is getting bigger is that because he is bragging about you and him???

what are you really comfortable with? considering the STC and your safety, are you ok with meeting and having sex with the new people before you really know them?

it's really none of our business to tell you, what to do, or what not to do...it all depends on what your boundaries are...and before you get dragged into something you are not comfortable with, you and your partner should have a talk....


sirpet2012 57F

8/31/2017 10:21 am

This can't be real...even if it is I'd drop him and fast..this won't turn out well


Aus4770 54M
190 posts
8/31/2017 10:51 am

If it was a problem you wouldn't go meet him. You enjoy it so why stop.


biker57111 67M

9/1/2017 4:23 am

you need to talk to him and tell him that you only want to be with him or who many guys your willing to let him over

lets have some fun together biker57111


DavidA810 53M
6 posts
9/2/2017 4:06 am

You should understand that every time you have sex with someone...you have an energy exchange with them. Since no one, including yourself, has your best interests at heart at these gangbangs, you've been absorbing a lot of negative energy that won't be good for you. If you want to have multiple partners and want to avoid this negative energy, you need to take an active part in choosing who your partners are going to be. Stay away from anyone that you don't seem to connect with.


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
9/3/2017 8:22 pm

Your situations have become laughable.
Make up your mind where any of it's going lead, and "own your decisions" - no matter where you end up. Or consider where it leads and decide where you want end up.


RicknwestTenn 58M
61 posts
9/5/2017 6:26 am

The more the merrier!


ArkSoutherngent5 69M  
910 posts
9/5/2017 6:49 pm

Using you, Darlin


babeegurl70 53F
39 posts
9/5/2017 9:08 pm

It depends. Do you like being a whore? Dude, he's pimping you out.

Later,


Yours_4A_knight 59M

9/5/2017 9:23 pm

I can't help but think that this is made up, a good story but a fictional one. But the point is you agreed to meet someone with a certain idea in mind, they sprung something else on you not once but many times.

To the point that now you actually expect to have as many extras as he can find sprung on you without warning?

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


sexstarvedme1966 57M
383 posts
9/10/2017 3:39 am

If this is true, then I agree with the others - he is pimping you out. Even if not for cash, then he is definitely getting some benefits. The fact it is different guys each time, though, suggests that he is pimping you. If you are happy with this situation, you may at least get the benefits, too. Demand a share:
the larger share!


trisha_ann_glynn 51T
1982 posts
9/10/2017 11:25 pm

You do realize, that he is charging them a fee. And you are not receiving a cut.
That your husband has not mentioned this ALOUD, makes me curious.


greeneyelongboi 52M
136 posts
9/11/2017 9:51 am

I would feel as thought the guy is just taking advantage of you. I would fear for my safety and health.


greeneyelongboi 52M
136 posts
9/11/2017 9:52 am

I would be flattered with one or two but annoyed past that.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
9/13/2017 2:08 pm

If they're not holding a gun to your head. You are just basically
asking our opinion on what we think of someone that
encourages this behavior because they allow it
to happen. .Where does your husband find all these guys?Maybe you should accompany him on one of his forays.Keep in mind that
you won't be able to put all the blame on him when
something really ugly happens ,if you do.


Maybe you'll live to see forty,maybe not.

Using more than all the road!


albl8888 53M

9/15/2017 7:46 am

I thing you are taken advantage of, but you seams to like it, so keep on.


assman5639 67M
16 posts
9/25/2017 12:18 am

That guy is a total douche bag and does not seem to have any respect for you. Get rid of him.


Michaelmjblucas1 54M

1/27/2018 7:42 am

You were being taken advantage of. That's how I feel, and felt !

I had two experiences in my past, with someone I was with, regarding your post. The first time, was with my boyfriend Joe, when I was 24 (my first real boyfriend / relationship. He wanted me to be more open about my gay side, as his friends liked me too! There were flirting and touches and suggestions here and there, but I wasn't ready for anything more, and always said no to it.

Then one time over Joe's apt., with his friends, I got very drowsy and went to lay down on his bed. In the morning I awoke. The bed and my ass were very wet with cum. At first, I thought Joe had sex with me when I was drunk. But as the days went on, I started to question things. I found out Joe let his friends fuck me too! Our relationship took a big tank from there. I got scared about many things I've learned about this. So am I now OBLIGATED to his friends too, since they already fucked me ! ?

The other time was when I was blowing this guy Bob regularly; NSA situation. Well, one time, he brought a friend of his over! I couldn't believe he would do THAT! I privately I said no, but he insisted I do his friend too! So... I did his friend too. After, I wasn't ready for where this situation was going, so Bob stopped seeing me, not long after.

In both, I brought myself out of those situations, and I feel better about myself, even though I am alone right now. I'd rather be alone, than with someone who only wants me, for his own selfish pleasure.

Again, thanks for letting me share my view.

Being curious and asking questions is a good thing!


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