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New Experiences and Why I Never Say “Sorry I Don’t Date” ……  

SouthnComfort247 54M  
5 posts
9/25/2017 6:43 am
New Experiences and Why I Never Say “Sorry I Don’t Date” ……


It always surprises me when I get that msg. I would think that a handsome, educated, funny, sexy guy….who just so happens to be a different race, out of your normal age limitations, visiting from out of town, etc would still be desirable. At least that’s what I think lol. I will say that I appreciate women taking the time to write me back and I can respect that.

I’m not writing this to change anyone’s mind but more so to share two experiences from my past curtesy of AdultFriendFinder.

[Asian and Married] We were about the same age and she was in a sexless marriage and Japanese. What I learned from our experience was that having similar values (family oriented, big family, education was important, and loved spicy food) goes a long way to making a connection. We could have grown up in the same neighborhood but she grew up in rural Japan.

[Older, SSBBW, Out of Towner] The other woman was 10 years older than me but I was intrigued by her fiery red hair. BTW: it’s true what they say about redheads lol. She lived out of town but made frequent trips to my city. What I learned is that older women have a plethora of sexual knowledge and you should enjoy it. And although she was more heavyset (closer to a SSBBW) we found some interesting positions to get into.

There have been others since them but there was a time when I wasn’t open to experiencing new people. Luckily I no longer feel that way. If you have , you know their learning potential is limitless and the only boundary is what you expose them to.

You only get one time to enjoy this life on earth, don’t limit yourself, live it up!!

SouthnComfort247 54M  
1 post
9/26/2017 6:11 am

Fair point, I'm only into women. And I already said proper hygienic practices must be in place. So I would also say heavy smokers is out.

Should I delete my post lol?


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